Shame Counselling & Therapy

Shame Counselling & Therapy

There are a variety of approaches to address the issue of shame.  One of them is the Shame Resilience method is based on the research of Brené Brown, Ph.D. LMSW. 

Shame Resilience is the developed ability to practice authenticity when we experience shame, to move through the experience without sacrificing our values, and to come out on the other side of the shame experience with more courage, compassion, and connection than we had going into it.

Shame Resilience is about moving from shame to empathy- the real antidote to shame. Self-compassion is also critically important, because when we’re able to be tender with ourselves in the midst of shame we’re more likely to reach out, connect and experience empathy.

Other approaches, like Complex Integration of Multiple Brain Systems (CIMBS)  uses what is called a systems perspective that can address how an individual has learned to respond due to early trauma and or other developmental experiences.

Approaches to shame are not limited to the above.  There are many other therapies that address feeling.

If you do contact a therapist regarding shame issues please make sure that you ask them about their training in this area and choose a therapist whose approach makes sense to you.

 

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Olivia Kienzel

M.Couns., RCC
Olivia has more than a decade of experience as a counsellor working with clients to transform their relationship to themselves, their lives, and the people they care about. She can help you, gently, get to the root... Read more

Paula Bude

M.Ed., RCC
Paula Bude (MEd., C.C.C., R.C.C., C.Hyp.) is asking you to consider: "what if this imperfect moment is the gateway into everything I want?".  Therapy with Paula is an invitation to deepen... Read more

Gloria McArter

Ph.D., RCC
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Dr. McArter has been in private practice since receiving her MA in Counselling Psychology in 1990. She received her Ph.D. in Psychology in 2002. Her research and dissertation focused on the relationship between religion... Read more

Jessie Langlois

M.Sc., RCC
I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) and a Canadian Certified Counsellor (CCC) working with adults and adolescents in my Vancouver office.   Many of the people who come to see me have various motivations... Read more

Jessica Begg

M.C., RCC
    • Online booking
I am a Food Therapist, as I am both a Registered Dietitian and Registered Clinical Counsellor.  I help people heal from disordered eating such as binge eating, overly emotional eating, and other eating... Read more

Bill Arbuckle

MCP, RCC
    • Online booking
At Hard Road Counselling we want to hear and understand you.  As life unfolds, you got hurt.  You carry these wounds with you, but feel fewer people want to listen, and you feel more alone... Read more

Eleanor Rogers

M.A., RCC
Eleanor Rogers is a Registered Clinical Counsellor in North Burnaby. I work with clients who are in the midst of difficult life transitions; who are faced with illness, grief and loss; who are recovering from... Read more

Carol Siebert

M.Ed., RCC
     From broken, back to beautiful. The Japanese tradition of Kinsugi is the reverent tradition of repairing broken pottery with gold infused with resin; transforming ugly breaks into beautiful... Read more

Aigin Larki

M.Ed., RCC
    • Online booking
My name is pronounced (Eye-gheen Lar-key) and I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor in British Columbia. I am of Turkic Iranian descent, speak conversational French and Farsi and have lived in... Read more

Alexa Charlene

MCP, RCC
    • Online booking
Life can feel incredibly painful when we are feeling stuck, disconnected, isolated, and ridden with distressing thoughts, memories and emotions. Together, we can make space for the parts of you needing to express that... Read more

Karen Goble

M.A., RCC
I’m a psychotherapist (MA, RCC) who offers therapy with heart. I’m committed to helping my clients learn how to move courageously beyond shame and self-defeat, and towards wholeheartedness, vulnerability,... Read more

Rachel Bullock

M.Couns., RCC
There are times when we feel overwhelmed, scared, lost.  We're doing our best, but we can't seem to find our way.  As an experienced counsellor, I can help you to catch your breath, find your strength... Read more

Gayane Ghazaryan

MCP, RCC
    • Online booking
I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) with the BC Association of Clinical Counsellors (BCACC) and a Master of Counselling Psychology (MCP). I am also the founder of Luminaire Therapy which offers... Read more

Sara Place

M.A., RCC
It is my honour to deeply listen and support your personal journey through whatever life circumstance brings you to counselling.  We can work through difficult life circumstances, relationship challenges (including... Read more

Nazanin Moghadami

M.Couns., RCC
April 2022: *I am not accepting new clients until January 2023*   Hello and welcome. I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor and I have been working within the mental health field in Vancouver for over 10... Read more

Otto Lim

M.S.W., RCSW
    • Online booking
I enjoy working with a diversity of clients and/or their family members who are have both mental health and substance use issues, including trauma and PTSD, depression, anxiety, substance or behavioral addictions, life... Read more

Sheri Johnson

M.S.W., RSW
    • Online booking
ONLINE ONLY.  Using cutting edge neuroscience approaches and over 11 years experience practicing clinical social work, an online session with me offers effective, results-oriented therapy in a non-judgemental,... Read more

Dale Trimble

M.A., RCC
Dale works with individuals experiencing depression, anxiety or anger as well as those recovering from trauma.  Dale is a senior faculty member with the Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy Institute (... Read more

Sam van Ginkel

M.A., RCC
    • Online booking
  ***Now Accepting new clients, in-person and online*** When painful thoughts and emotions show up, it can be like trying to find our way through a fog. It’s hard to live the way we want to when anxiety... Read more

Roya Vojdani

M.A., RCC
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    • Online booking
If you are here reading this, your healing journey has already begun. I would love to be on your side as you continue this journey. About Me: I am Roya Vojdani, MA. I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor with... Read more

Gloria Lee

Psy.D., R.Psych
Thank you for visiting my website. It takes a lot of courage to seek help and ask for what we need. There are lots of counselling options out there and it's hard to know where to start. I believe you are at the... Read more

Nadine Jans

M.Sc., RCC
Over-eating, emotional eating, caregiving, trauma, guilt, shame, self sabotage, depression, anxiety, and self-esteem issues are the areas in which I have specialized training. I have seen powerful results with... Read more

Deborah Braun

M.A., RCC
My experienc Deborah Braun, BLA, MA, RCC welcomes individuals and couples facing challenging issues. Whether it's chronic illness, relationship, career or college satisfaction, anxiety, depression, loss, stress... Read more

Anna Richards

M.Couns., RCC
Anna Richards Counselling & Consulting I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor and a certified mediator in downtown Vancouver. I am also on faculty at the Justice Institute of British Columbia... Read more

Madeleine Sullivan

M.Ed., RCC
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    • Online booking
I offer a warm, kind, caring and compassionate, non-judgmental approach to counselling to help you reach a happier state of mind, empower yourself to move forward with your life, and to create positive and... Read more

Kev Kokoska

M.Ed., RCC
PAY-WHAT-FEELS-FAIR online therapy available for individuals impacted by COVID-19 * My name is Kevin Kokoska and I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) with the BC Association of Clinical Counsellors (BCACC)... Read more

Sylvia Cust

M.A., RCC
Welcome to this page and what it can offer you. With 20 years experience as an individual and marital counsellor,  facilitator and Self-Regulation therapist.  Sylvia brings proven skills and radiant... Read more