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M.A., RSW
Mainland∕Southwest, BC — Virtual Only

Certified Gottman Method Therapist, Peter frequently addresses couples communication during conflict, restoring fidelity and commitment, or building intimacy and sexuality. Other common issues: ongoing incompatibilities…

M.S.W., RSW
New Westminster, BC

TOM FOSTER, MSW, RSW: Tom has been a therapist for over 40 years and has experience working with clients facing a wide range of concerns. Tom has worked extensively with issues related to sexuality, relationship conflict…

M.S.W., RCC
Victoria, BC — Virtual & In-person

Shelley Gordon has been an Imago Relationship Therapist since 1996, and a Therapist since 1983. She has over 25 years of experience, and is an advanced clinician with Imago Relationships International. Shelley is…

M.A., RCC
Campbell River, BC — Virtual Only

As a Registered Clinical Counsellor, I can help if you are stressed, anxious or depressed. At their extreme, anxiety and depression can be crippling, making you feel hopeless. Life becomes a struggle and your…

M.A., RCC
Coquitlam, BC — Virtual Only

My approach is grounded, collaborative, and compassionate. I aim to create a space where clients can speak honestly without judgment while also developing practical tools they can use outside of the session. I draw from…

MACP, RCC
Coquitlam, BC — Virtual Only

My hope is that my clients feel safe to be vulnerable and use the therapeutic space however they need to. My philosophies around counselling in general are that the client should be met with respect and unconditional…

M.Ed., RCC
Vancouver, BC — In-person & Virtual

My name is Erin and I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) offering in-person counselling for individuals and couples/relationships in Kitsilano. Together we can identify the tools, strategies, and solutions you…

M.C., RCC
Vancouver, BC

I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor with a Master of Counselling Degree from City University of Seattle. My previous education and experience was in medicine (M.D. from Kuban State Medical University in Russia with a…

M.A., RCC
Surrey, BC — Virtual & In-person

Hello, NAJ therapies is a shared practice run by Ron Prasad. Ron is a registered clinical counselor with the BCACC (British Columbia Clinical Counselors Association), and a member of ITAPP (International Institute of…

MCP, RCC
Port Moody, BC — Virtual & In-person

I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC, #20816) with the British Columbia Association of Clinical Counsellors. I have a Bachelor of Arts in Psychology with Distinction from Simon Fraser University and a Master’s in…

M.Sc., CCC
Vancouver, BC and Richmond, BC — In-person & Virtual

Whether you are feeling depressed anxious, wanting to talk to someone, or to work out your inner issues so that you can be a happy person, I am here to help. Feeling stuck in your family relations, you can still live…

M.A., RCC
Vancouver, BC — Virtual Only
Overthinking everything? Hard on yourself? Repeating the same patterns in relationships? I help adults understand what’s driving anxiety, self-doubt and disconnection and build a more grounded, confident sense of self.
M.Sc., RCC
Tsawwassen, BC and New Westminster, BC — Virtual & In-person

Mary Longworth is in private practice (Delta Counselling) in the South Delta, Tsawwassen, Ladner and New Westminster regions since receiving her M.Sc. in marital, family and child counselling in 1995. Mary is a…

Ph.D., RCC
Victoria, BC and Mission, BC — Virtual Only

Relationships, sexual wellness, intimacy, stress and related disorders, and trauma - Shauna is here for the tough stuff, with the goal of helping you live your best, most fulfilling life possible. She works with…

M.C., RCC
Vancouver, BC — Virtual & In-person

I work with folks navigating queer relationships (couples/partners and individuals), identity exploration, sex and intimacy, and problematic substance use. Working with queer and trans clients. Queer and trans…

M.A., CCC
Squamish, BC — Virtual & In-person

Asking yourself questions like these: Is this authentic for me? Can I be me? Am I allowed to be myself? What is life asking me at this time? These important Life questions are openings, invitations, and horizons for…

M.C., RCC
Vancouver, BC — Virtual & In-person

I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) with specialized training in sex therapy, narrative therapy, and couples therapy. I am queer, kink and gender affirming and approach therapy from a sex-positive lens. I use…

M.Ed., RCC
Victoria, BC and Nanaimo, BC — Virtual Only

Sex therapy. ADHD support. Relationship uncertainty. If you’re struggling with symptoms of perimenopause, pain during sex, desire differences, ADHD, overwhelm, or deciding whether to stay or separate, you don’t have to…

MACP, RCC
North Vancouver, BC and Vancouver, BC — Virtual & In-person

I offer therapy to help you come home to yourself. You don’t have to have it all figured out — every part of you is welcome, even the messy, unsure, or guarded ones. My approach is grounded in warmth, curiosity, and real…

M.S.W., RSW
Vancouver, BC — Virtual Only

I’m Laura Hoge (she/her), a Registered Social Worker offering online couples, relationship, and individual therapy in English or French at Clayre Sessoms Psychotherapy. You might be looking for support with recurring…

M.A., RCC
West Vancouver, BC — Virtual & In-person

With over 20 years of clinical experience, I work with individuals and couples who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or at a crossroads. Together, we explore the emotional patterns, relational dynamics, and lived experiences that…

M.A., CCC
North Vancouver, BC — Virtual & In-person

For over 20 years, Heather Bach of Bach Counselling Group brings clinical expertise to working with those who wish to make a positive change in relationships, intimacy, depression, anxiety, trauma, grief, ADHD, parenting…

M.A., RCC
Vancouver, BC — In-person & Virtual

​​I understand that taking that first step towards seeking support can be daunting. It’s often during moments of loneliness, shame, or crisis that we find the courage to reach out. Whether you’re navigating a challenging…

M.C., RCC
Vancouver, BC — Virtual Only

Mareel Counselling is a Vancouver-based sex therapy and relationship counselling practice built on one belief: that everyone deserves a space where they can be fully, unapologetically themselves. We use a biopsychosocial…

M.A., RCC
Kelowna, BC — Virtual & In-person

As a man, therapy might not be your preferred use of time, yet a growing part of you is curious about what could be. Throughout your life, you’ve felt minimized and closed off from your potential. Maybe you’ve grown…

M.A., RCC
North Vancouver, BC — Virtual & In-person

Would you like help to find relief, clarity, and a greater sense of ease? Whether you believe your life challenges to be major or minor ones, are feeling stuck in a reoccurring pattern, or simply wanting things to feel…

M.Ed., RCC
Vancouver, BC — Virtual & In-person

It’s no small thing to open up the deepest and scariest parts of ourselves. Just showing up to a therapy session can be a nervous process, and working towards healing takes bravery. I want to be the person that walks…

M.Ed., RCC
Vancouver, BC — Virtual & In-person
I often work with individuals, particularly the daughters of immigrants, who present well on the surface, seem completely put together when they want to be, and whose problems are not always apparent to others.
M.Couns., RCC
Victoria, BC and Nanaimo, BC — Virtual & In-person

Emmalee offers in person counselling in Victoria, BC, as well as phone and online video counselling sessions for clients across British Columbia. She works with individuals (16+), couples, and families (where all…

Ph.D., R.Psych
New Westminster, BC — Virtual & In-person

Dr. Tanya Elez is a Registered Psychologist and a Registered Marriage and Family Therapist who sees clients at her office in New Westminster downtown. She offers counselling services to diverse couples, individuals and…

Intimacy Issues Counsellors

Intimacy issues are common for people who fear vulnerability. Some people can become vulnerable in front of a few trusted friends, however, but when a relationship starts becoming too close, they feel suffocated. In this sense, the intimacy issues are seated in the fear of developing a deep and meaningful relationship with another person.

Two fears that are at the heart of intimacy issues, are the fear of abandonment (fearing the partner might leave them) and the fear of engulfment (fearing that they would lose themselves in a relationship), which sometimes co-exist. These fears, often rooted in childhood traumas, are often deeply entrenched in codependent adult relationships where they cause friction.

A therapist who works with people who have intimacy issues will first help you to learn to become comfortable with yourself and accept yourself for who you are. You will explore the complex past events that have created these intimacy issues and discover that those events don't have to cloud your present experiences.

This process is essential in discovering that rejection does not have to be a traumatic experience. Finally, you will learn how to set personal boundaries that will help you to avoid the fear of engulfment and to cope, should abandonment occur. While healing intimacy issues can be a challenging and somewhat painful task, the rewards are incredible.

If you are looking for a counsellor or psychologist who addresses intimacy issues, you may want to search the directory to find a professional whose approach will suit you best.