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Practice Information
With over 20 years of clinical experience, I work with individuals and couples who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or at a crossroads. Together, we explore the emotional patterns, relational dynamics, and lived experiences that may be shaping how you move through your life and relationships today. Often, what keeps us feeling stuck are long-standing protective strategies that once made sense but may no longer serve who we are becoming.
My approach is warm, engaged, and compassionate, offering a steady and supportive space for deeper self-understanding, emotional clarity, and meaningful change. I am interested in helping you come into greater contact with yourself—your needs, your boundaries, your longings, and your capacity for connection. Therapy is not about fixing what is broken, but about creating space for what is true, often for the first time in a long while.
Relationships can be one of our greatest sources of joy and one of our greatest challenges. I help couples identify and shift the patterns that keep them feeling disconnected, misunderstood, or stuck in recurring cycles of conflict. Together we slow things down enough to notice what is happening beneath the surface—how each partner moves into protection, withdrawal, pursuit, or shutdown when things feel hard.
Whether you are navigating communication difficulties, trust ruptures, life transitions, parenting stress, or a desire for greater intimacy and aliveness in your relationship, our work focuses on building new ways of relating that feel more honest, flexible, and connected.
Whether you're feeling stuck, overwhelmed, disconnected, or simply longing for something to feel different, you don't have to navigate it alone. I offer a collaborative space where we can make sense of what’s happening and support meaningful, sustainable change. If you're curious about working together, I invite you to reach out.
Every relationship is unique, with its own strengths, vulnerabilities, and relational history. No two couples arrive in the same place, and yet many share a common experience: feeling caught in patterns that are difficult to shift without support.
During challenging times, connection with a partner can activate strong emotional responses. These moments often bring forward old wounds, sensitivities, and protective strategies that can quickly escalate into painful arguments that feel repetitive and unresolved. Over time, couples can find themselves cycling through the same conflicts again and again, with little sense of clarity or repair. This can lead to frustration, emotional distance, and a growing sense of hopelessness about change.
In my work with couples, I take a collaborative and engaged approach to help identify the specific interactional patterns that keep partners stuck. Together, we slow down the cycle so it can be understood rather than simply reacted to. This includes increasing awareness of what happens internally for each partner during moments of activation—how we move into withdrawal, defensiveness, pursuit, shutdown, or escalation. From this place of awareness, new options for responding can begin to emerge.
The goal is not to assign blame, but to increase understanding and create new possibilities for connection. Couples begin to recognize that the problem is often not one partner or the other, but the pattern that forms between them.
I support couples navigating a wide range of complex and sensitive issues, including:
- Fertility challenges and reproductive stress
- Pregnancy, childbirth, and early parenting transitions
- Parenting stress and differing parenting styles
- Financial anxiety and relational strain related to money
- Sexuality, desire differences, and compatibility concerns
- Separation, divorce, or uncertainty about staying together
- Codependency and difficulties with boundaries
- Life transitions and identity shifts (career, relocation, aging, etc.)
- Affairs, betrayal, and infidelity repair work
- Navigating intimacy, emotional closeness, and disconnection
- Entrenched relational patterns and recurring conflict cycles
- Anger, reactivity, and escalation in conflict
- Communication breakdowns and difficulty addressing sensitive topics
For your convenience, I also offer online and telephone therapy sessions. This allows couples to connect from the comfort and privacy of their own space, making therapy more accessible and flexible within the realities of busy lives. All that is required is a stable internet connection and a private environment where you can speak openly and without interruption.