I work with men in their 20s, 30s and 40s with ADHD, anxiety, and relationship issues, and often a history of childhood trauma.
You may be unhappy in your work or your relationships, and likely struggle with a harsh internal voice of self-criticism. Perhaps you’ve realized that events in the past continue to impact you and are preventing you from living the way you want to.
Many men have had physically, emotionally, or sexually abusive childhoods, whose impact they continue to feel. Less obvious forms of dysfunction in families can also deeply affect a child’s sense of worth into adulthood. Some of the men I work with have had frightening or painful experiences as teens and younger adults, involving bullying, addiction, the illness or loss of loved ones, or their own physical and mental health. They've often been impacted by ADHD as well. Others have experienced religious trauma: if you grew up in a strict religious environment, or had adverse religious experiences later in life, you may now be struggling to find your way ahead.
You may have nightmares or insomnia, or find it hard to stop thinking about things that have happened. Maybe you’re irritable or on edge, or you over-react to seemingly small provocations. You find yourself yelling at your partner or your kids, and then feel guilty about it after. You look for ways to distract or numb your feelings (like drinking or using weed, video games or porn); or you try very hard to get rid of aspects of yourself you don’t like. But you know these methods aren’t really working and often cause more problems than they solve. You want something different.
HEALING AND GROWTH
The good news is that we all have innate resources that can empower us to heal and grow. When you come to counselling with me, we’ll work together to help you discover those resources, heal from traumatic experiences, resolve inner turmoil, and find renewed pleasure and purpose in your life.
Although trauma can have very painful consequences, it may also provide an opportunity to reevaluate your life and discover strengths and ambitions you didn’t know were there before. In our work together, we’ll aim for both healing and growth. Counselling can be a life-changing experience.
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