Grief and Loss - General, Self-Esteem Issues Counsellors

Grief and Loss - General, Self-Esteem Issues

Grief is a natural part of dealing with the loss of a loved one, or a situation, or a way in which we see ourselves. Loss requires that we change the way things used to be and find a new way to restructure our lives accordingly. It's common for people to fear change, particularly if a part of us, or a person we loved deeply, is no longer there. It leaves a gap that has to be filled, but nothing can replace the person who has left us behind.

People deal with loss in many different ways, but the desired end result is the same - trying to piece together the puzzle to the best of our ability, without the missing piece. We also go through the various stages of grief at varying speeds and intensities. Dealing with all the emotions that form part of grief is what makes support so very important.

Time is of the essence during the grieving period, and something we sometimes tend to rush. That's why it's so useful to speak to a therapist who does grief counselling during this time.

A therapist will help you understand that what you are feeling is completely normal and even expected. Medical professionals are aware of the wide range of natural responses to grief and loss and are generally reluctant to diagnose mental illness while a person is in a period of bereavement. However, if depression is present, medication is likely to be prescribed.

Grief therapy will help you to accept the loss and be able to talk about it without breaking down. You will learn to identify and express your emotions regarding the loss and learn to make decisions without your loved one.

If you are looking for a counsellor or psychologist does grief counselling to address your grief and loss you may want to search the directory to find a professional whose approach will suit you best.

A positive self-esteem is an essential tool to help someone function as a productive member of society. Our basic sense of worth determines how well we are able to deal with situations and how well we perform in the family, at school, at work and in life.

Having a healthy self-esteem means that we have a sense of self-worth, self-respect and the ability to find the good in yourself. On the contrary, a negative self image can lead to social anxiety, loneliness, self-criticism, shame and even anger. A person with low self-esteem often feels isolated.

Self-esteem issues are usually created in childhood when negative experiences and poor influences and reactions from caregivers stunt the development of a positive self esteem. Self-esteem can also be affected by abuse, or by being different. A person may be stigmatized for his or her social identity, race, social class, behaviors or appearance.

However, a person's self-esteem can also be challenged during adulthood when one experiences marital issues, financial problems, career glitches or legal challenges.

Therapy can help a person come to terms with self-esteem issues. A therapist will help identify the causes of self-esteem issues and help the individual to regain control over circumstances through goal-directed therapy.

It can help someone with low self-esteem to separate who they are from what they have, or how they look in order to overcome low self-esteem issues. Discovering one's worth is a great way to take control of situations and to learn to feel adequate.

If you are looking for a counsellor or psychologist who offers goal directed therapy to address your self-esteem issues, you may want to search the directory to find a professional whose approach will suit you best.
 

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Michelle Mann

Ph.D., RCC
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M.S.W., RCC
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M.A., RCC
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Noele Bird

M.A., RCC
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M.C., RCC
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M.Ed., RCC
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Jessie Langlois

M.Sc., RCC
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M.A., RCC
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M.A., RCC
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Elizabeth Holland

M.A., RCC
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Meris Williams

Ph.D., R.Psych
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Susan Blake

Ph.D., R.Psych
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Joyce Barwis

, RCC
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Mary Ann Pelzer

M.A., RCC
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M.Couns., RCC
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Tami Amit

M.A., RCC
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Chelsea Stenner

M.A., RCC
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Josef Zaide

Ph.D., R.Psych
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Jay Brotherton

M.A., CCC
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Madeleine Sullivan

M.Ed., RCC
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Shelley Gordon

M.S.W., RCC
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Kerry Moller

M.A., RCC
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Barb Leigh

M.A., CCC
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Karen Ergas

Ph.D., R.Psych
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Andrew Herfst

M.A., RCC
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Delyse Ledgard

M.A., RCC
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David Holmes

M.A., RCC
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Martine Charles

Ph.D., RCC
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Ed.D., R.Psych
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M.Couns., RCC
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